From the Shores of the Ottawa River

Mid-February Musings

Lately, I’ve been reflecting more deeply on life’s fleeting nature. I grapple with the idea of a purposeful life—what does it truly mean? I believe we must be intentional in how we live, yet purpose manifests differently for each of us. This contemplation led me to reevaluate what is truly important in my life.

Winter, with its slower pace and deep introspection, offers a contrast to the early stirrings of spring’s renewal. In this season of transition, we find ourselves in a time of profound uncertainty. This uncertainty is political and economic. We are witnesses to the unfolding realities just beyond our borders, particularly in the United States.

I recently examined social media trends, as I often do. This examination included both my own posts and those of the people I follow. Some share meaningful insights or knowledge, while others seem adrift, without clear purpose. I understand the universal desire to be successful, attractive, and in control of our lives. But is that sense of control real, or is it merely an illusion?

Could there be a deeper purpose in how we choose to share information?

When I critically analyze my own posts, I notice a pattern. There are images of matcha tea, flowers, my garden, the Ottawa River, and family moments. Only two selfies. Not because I lack confidence, but because I find no real purpose in sharing a photo of myself. What would my followers learn about me from that? A selfie reveals little about my integrity, character, or dreams.

Yet, the other images tell a story. My tea and flowers suggest an appreciation for life’s simple pleasures. My family photos reflect my deep love and commitment to them. The pictures of the Ottawa River convey something even more profound—a sense of gratitude. Through each season, the river offers a different energy. In winter, it has a frozen stillness. In spring, it shows restless momentum. Summer evenings bring a tranquil awe. These images are my way of sharing not just what I see, but what I feel.

I have often contemplated the nature of social media. My concern is that much of it feels superficial—driven by validation, where the most attention-grabbing posts garner the most likes. But that is not why I am here. I seek connection—genuine, meaningful, and rooted in something deeper than fleeting approval.

Buddhist philosophy teaches that we have little control over what unfolds beyond our hands. The past is gone, the future is yet to come. All we truly have is this present moment—because it is here, and only here, that life is happening. Sometimes the message of the Buddha is only revealed when the conditions are right. Therefore, be present and mindful in your actions.

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